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‘It is only half an hour’ — ‘It is only an afternoon’ — ‘It is only an evening,’ people say to me over and over again; but they don’t know that it is impossible to command one’s self sometimes to any stipulated and set disposal of five minutes — or that the mere consciousness of an engagement will sometime worry a whole day … Who ever is devoted to an art must be content to deliver himself wholly up to it, and to find his recompense in it. I am grieved if you suspect me of not wanting to see you, but I can’t help it; I must go in my way whether or no.

—Charles Dickens

From “Creative People Say No,” a piece you shouldn’t say no to.


Yes and No

Scott Raab: A lot of folks worry that if they aren’t available or don’t say yes, they’ll stop getting asked.
Bill Murray: If you keep saying yes, they’ll stop asking you, too.

(Bill Murray: The ESQ+A.)